A man has begged for help from relationship expert, Deidre as he cannot stop sleeping with two other women apart from his wife.
I love my wife and our s*x life is great but I am also sleeping with two other women. My life is out of control. I’m 34 and my wife is 35. We have been married for eight years and have two boys aged seven and five.
We have a great relationship but even so, there are these two other women in my life. The first one works in my building and we have a connection like no other I have ever known. We tell each other everything. We don’t see one another every day but we never fail to send each other daily messages.
We have amazing romps and also practise tantric sex when we have the chance to be together in that way, which is usually four to five hours each week.
I love this woman in a very different way to my wife. I feel we are soul mates and should be together. If it wasn’t for my children I think we would be.
She is 33 and married but she has told me loads of times that she does not love her husband.
The other woman in my life is my wife’s sister. She is 32 and single. We don’t get on that well but we seem physically attracted to one another. We meet up once every couple of weeks and it is just for one thing — sex.
She has an amazing body and is not afraid to try anything. She’s very adventurous and I just can’t say no to her. It may seem bad but I don’t feel guilty about what I am doing to my wife. I feel as though I am cheating on my lover at work with my wife and her sister.
I know this is a train wreck waiting to happen but I am scared that if I finish with my wife’s sister, she will go and tell my wife everything. Do I come clean and leave my wife, finish with her sister and concentrate on building a new life with the woman at work?
I really love my kids and don’t want them to get hurt, but I don’t know how to stop this