I am about canceling my marriage arrangements with my baby mama – Man cries help

Baby mama

I met my baby mama in Late 2015 via social media (Badoo). We had a great relationship dating.

It’s almost like we are made for each other. Fast forward a couple of months I felt like I have found my missing rib. I popped the question in January 2016 and she said YES. I had plans to settle down before the end of 2016.

I lost my job a few months into 2016 and things fell really apart for me.

I could not carry on with the marriage as I planned. Towards the end of 2016, she concluded a business that raised her around 450k.

Because of how things were so difficult, she gave me the money to buy a car, so I can use it for a taxi.

I did so. We were managing well. She got pregnant and gave birth to my son in 2017.

Fast-forward 2019 I got a job as an assistant manager at a hotel. That’s when we started having issues. Because I had to move out to my place of work in another state.

Honestly, I have never been the faithful type of guy. But I have never let that change my feelings for her. Because I really love her.

She knows that I am not really faithful, but She had never really felt insecure since we were always together.

…But when I moved out it became one problem after another. I started making arrangements for the wedding with the little money I have been able to save.

At least to get the traditional marriage done. The wedding was supposed to be in November 2019. September 2019 she had an accident. I spent every single dime I had to pay the hospital bills. I even borrowed money. Thanks be to God she is fine today.

So at the end of 2019, I resigned from the job and moved back to the house, so peace would reign and to avoid all the insecurities.

Currently, I am job hunting, but yet she has got worse. When I go out to make contacts she accuses me of going out with women.

I am the kind of guy who has a hot temper, and she has a hot temper too.

Many times when complaints and screams down the house, I don’t say anything because that is how I have trained myself to control my temper. Because if I respond to everything she says I will definitely end up beating her. So I keep quiet.

I have always been the one cooking our meals because I am a very good cook. And she loves my cooking. Now she nags about me cooking my meals when she is at home.

I am seriously considering opting out. But I am considering our son. I came from a polygamous family.

She, too, is from a polygamous home. I am trying hard to make sure that we break that bond. But she is pushing me to quit.

She keeps telling me that if I am tired of the relationship, I should let her know and walk away.

Please Advise Me, How Should I Handle This Situation, I Am On The Verge Of Giving Up.

My son is kinda the only thing keeping us together.

No insults please.

Thank you.



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