I met my baby mama in Late 2015 via social media (Badoo). We had a great relationship dating.
It’s almost like we are made for each other. Fast forward a couple of months I felt like I have found my missing rib. I popped the question in January 2016 and she said YES. I had plans to settle down before the end of 2016.
I lost my job a few months into 2016 and things fell really apart for me.
I could not carry on with the marriage as I planned. Towards the end of 2016, she concluded a business that raised her around 450k.
Because of how things were so difficult, she gave me the money to buy a car, so I can use it for a taxi.
I did so. We were managing well. She got pregnant and gave birth to my son in 2017.
Fast-forward 2019 I got a job as an assistant manager at a hotel. That’s when we started having issues. Because I had to move out to my place of work in another state.
Honestly, I have never been the faithful type of guy. But I have never let that change my feelings for her. Because I really love her.
She knows that I am not really faithful, but She had never really felt insecure since we were always together.
…But when I moved out it became one problem after another. I started making arrangements for the wedding with the little money I have been able to save.
At least to get the traditional marriage done. The wedding was supposed to be in November 2019. September 2019 she had an accident. I spent every single dime I had to pay the hospital bills. I even borrowed money. Thanks be to God she is fine today.
So at the end of 2019, I resigned from the job and moved back to the house, so peace would reign and to avoid all the insecurities.
Currently, I am job hunting, but yet she has got worse. When I go out to make contacts she accuses me of going out with women.
I am the kind of guy who has a hot temper, and she has a hot temper too.
Many times when complaints and screams down the house, I don’t say anything because that is how I have trained myself to control my temper. Because if I respond to everything she says I will definitely end up beating her. So I keep quiet.
I have always been the one cooking our meals because I am a very good cook. And she loves my cooking. Now she nags about me cooking my meals when she is at home.
I am seriously considering opting out. But I am considering our son. I came from a polygamous family.
She, too, is from a polygamous home. I am trying hard to make sure that we break that bond. But she is pushing me to quit.
She keeps telling me that if I am tired of the relationship, I should let her know and walk away.
Please Advise Me, How Should I Handle This Situation, I Am On The Verge Of Giving Up.
My son is kinda the only thing keeping us together.
No insults please.