The Misinterpretation of the Compliment “Sexy”

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Sometimes you just wonder why some compliment can actually be insulting and narrowing someone down to just a definition. We are many things, all you just have to do is define you and not the compliment and words define you, when you define yourself first you know already the compliment that’s meant for you and you begin to see compliments differently.

Many women are not confident about their body or how sexy they are, they still find it offensive when they hear compliments like you are sexy or you’ve got a beautiful body they see it like that’s all you can just see in them. It goes beyond that, these people just pick one of your many definitions to appreciate that part of you they see and appreciate, usually overwhelming and stealing their consciousness away and couldn’t hold but tell their thought to you in honesty, they know you are worth more, that’s why they’ve complimented, to express how much they notice you and how your look has spice their day.Misinterpretation of sexy

How much our body worth sometimes we don’t know, probably because we stayed in it since forever we’ve forgotten how beautiful it is, it takes an outsider sometimes to tell you how glorious your body is, they are seeing beyond what your eyes can probably see, they are seeing another perspective of you, seeing you from a different view that cause excitement in their head little or much. They meant it when they say it, but usually how it’s been said matters too and when they don’t come out right it comes as insulting, while some ladies are just natural they just go with the flow and enjoy the compliment.

Compliments are meant to light us up again, to remind us of who we are and what we want to be, of how beautiful we are created and how hot and pretty our body is. The sexy compliment usually are real and honest, true compliment but often we hear them as improper as words that are fowl that are meant not to be said, or the use of a different word they tend to prefer sometimes, words are meant to carry the true meaning of what we truly intend to say. The body is meant to be complimented, adorn and appreciated, words is just one way to appreciate how glorious the body is and the vibe of the body.

 

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  7. Jonathan Wright^I’d give this no stars if possible. This shirt was purchased as a xmas gift for my son. It’s the worst quality shirt and is made of rayon or polyester. Theres not even any tags on the shirt. Maybe trying to pose as a dry wick fabric. Either way I’ll be returning and never buying from this seller again. I advise you do the same~3|Amazon Customer^This product is extremely low quality. The image is blurry and much smaller on the shirt than the picture shows. The shirt’s fit is too small and very poor quality&#44 almost see through. The item is not worth the money.~3|Sabrina Rose^We have gotten SO many compliments on this shirt!! It’s the best!! Got it for Corgi Beach Day and wore this for Earth Day/March for Science too! Hubby loves it. He usually wears a Large and this fit great. Not baggy but not too tight. It’s a pretty soft material~5|Scott^Too small (ordered an adult medium for my wife) my 30 lb dog almost didnt fit in it&#44 not cotton (polyester or rayon)&#44 no tags. took a month to ship… probably chinese…~3|Angie^It’s a nice shirt. It fits nice and the print is visible and vibrant. The only problem I have is that I expected a t-shirt cotton shirt but it’s more like a sports shirt material. It’s fine though since I can use it during workouts or hikes~5|Tidbit^This shirt was way too small.~5|Lu^So I ordered this as a Christmas present for my friend and it took exactly one month to ship&#44 which extremely worried me (though the time rage was from the day it came to a month later in January). Come the day in which we exchange presents it is ridiculously too small even though I bought a “Adult Unisex Mens Medium”. I will likely be returning this or gifting it to a small child. Also the shirt is NOT 100%&#44 it is Polyester. Very disappointed.~3|Amazon Customer^The print is nice and mine came on a cotton shirt.~5|Amazon Customer^Nice basic tshirt~5|

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  9. Andrew David Plunkett^This shirt is really good looking&#44 and is extremely comfortable. It runs a little on the big side&#44 which is the style&#44 but it is overall a really great looking shirt for people into streetwear style fashion. Also&#44 the length of the shirt is perfect and allows for some really cool layered outfits that really make a statement. Overall&#44 10/10 would highly recommend.~5|Amazon Customer^I ordered the largest size&#44 which was a xxxL. I was worried that it may not fit right&#44 because I am a big guy and buying things online sometimes doesn’t work out&#44 so I always order a size larger than I wear. But the shirt is true to its size and was actually larger than I expected. Super happy and impressed at the quality of the fabric. I really recommend this shirt.~5|BeerMateo^Does it really need the word “hipster” in the product name? It’s a long shirt with zippers on the side. I didn’t want the zippers&#44 I just wanted a long shirt to cover my crack because crack kills. Shirt is long&#44 but material is all silky feeling. It’s a silky-sexy shirt. Woulda preferred plain cotton.~3|tania^Boyfriend really liked the shirt&#44 at first we didn’t know what to expect because the material looked stretchy on the pictures but he’s a size large and that’s the size we got and it fit him perfectly. I really liked how it looked on him.~5|darrell lyons^Yes~5|Helen FC^Looks great.~5|Amazon Customer^Great fit…~5|Ron B^Very Nice!~5|kyle richardson^The shirt is to tight and does not fit &#44 also sender did not get me a label to return…. beware!~3|Amazon Customer^DO NOT BUY!!! ITS SUPER SMALL AND ITS JUST A PLAIN BLACK SHIRT ITS NOT EVEN ELONGATED OR WITH A ZIPPER~3|

  10. laura f^Received this shirt shipped from China. It came in a package with a non-compliant European Union Treaty customs stamp on the package. Shirt had no official Disney License identification anywhere on it. Had labels with Chinese lettering on it. The material is clearly not 100% cotton as advertised. Feels/looks like a poly blend. The sizing is not American. It might be a Chinese men’s large&#44 which is much smaller than an American men’s large size. Even though it’s not as advertised and probably not a licensed Disney product&#44 which would be a serious crime. The seller refused to provide a full refund.~3|Eric B.^This shirt was horrible. The logo was cheaply printed on. It looks NOTHING like the picture. The sun isn’t yellow in the background&#44 it is red which the shirt is red also! And the best for the last… IT IS CROOKED&#44 and not like one or two degreees crooked&#44 in talking 75-90 degrees crooked. It looks like the characters are walking up hill… do not get me started on the characters what they look like.~3|Marie-Pier^cheap&#44 not from Disney&#44 not in cotton&#44 it’s scrap!!! too small&#44 very disappointed~3|Paula R^Very soft fabric. We love it!~5|Amazon Customer^Too small and not made of cotton&#44 like is says on the description. I returned this item and was only given a fraction of my money back. Don’t waste your money.~3|RB^I should have read the reviews. Everything stated above it’s real. Chinese crap inside out!~3|Amazon Customer^This is NOT a Disney shirt and it does NOT look like what it does in the picture. I would not recommend purchasing this t-shirt.~3|Amazon Customer^Shirt was TOO SMALL. This was more like a medium&#44 it barely fit me and I ordered it for my husband.~3|Amazon Customer^Poor quality&#44bad graphics&#44 small.~3|Sean Compton^Cheap Chinese crap~3|

  11. Lilgal23^I am sure some of the people who give a good review to this product got the shirt as the advertising picture. It is a nice print.What i got its a very small print in the middle of the front of the shirt. We were very excite to get the t-shirt. It took a very long time to get to us&#44 it was ship from china. When we look at the shirt we were speechless&#44 and we felt cheated of our money. be aware this is a false advertising. The picture does not look nothing to what you get. This people answer to my return. “I am sorry i will return $4.00 and you can keep the t-shirt”. why will i want to keep this shirt its ridiculous you will be a joke if you ware it.~3|Amazon Customer^It took almost a full month to receive it.The T-shirt material seems to be ok quality&#44 but the print is “NOTHING AS EXPECTED”. It looks like they ran out of ink&#44 and then had the shirt washed a 1&#44000 times.It is completely faded!!!Very unhappy with it&#44 since it was meant to be a gift&#44 and I would feel ashamed to give it as a gift!!!I got 3 shirts different sizes ( 3XL&#44 2XL&#44 and XL)The XL is like an LThe 2XL and 3XL are like an XL and they are “both exactly” the same size!!!~3|Charles Dunitz^Well the art work is on the front&#44 it shown on the back and it is not centered. I will not wear this~3|hi^This is not a cotton T-shirt. Not sure what the material is&#44 but don’t expect it to fit or feel like a T-shirt. Also be prepared to wait weeks while it ships from China. Disappointment.~3|Apopkaladd^I get compliments on this shirt.I even ordered one for my buddy so he could have one. True to size.~5|Amazon Customer^Nothing like the page shows&#44print was on front not the back&#44print was very small.(Disappointed)~3|Joanne^Love the wording and design on the back. Did not like the material it was made of–seemed very lightweight and silky. Definitely not a heavyweight cotton. Also&#44 ordered a large but certainly was not a large!~4|Nancy S.^Print was suppose to be on back of shirt but print came on front. graphics were much lighter than add shows. Not impressed at all.~4|Janice Upton^Not a true 2XL~3|Danielle Weidow^Junk. Looks cheap and doesn’t fit. Do not buy!!!~3|