My new man is mechanical in bed,what do i do?


‘’I met a guy some months back. We were actually introduced by our mutual friend. After months of communication via the telephone, Black Berry and whatsapp- We finally met (for the first time) -at his base…where we spent a weekend together. He is OK and he told me that he also likes what he saw in me. But Parliament, the truth is that a few things (about him) are giving me a lot of cause for concern and I am wondering how best to communicate those across to him. Do I tell him directly what those issues (which I will explain shortly) that are giving me grave concerns are, or should I go through the fellow that introduced us? The first issue is that he has an offensive mouth odour and ‘kissing him’ was like a punishment to me…Parliament, it’s that bad! And the second concern (of mine) is that the sexual fireworks didn’t really happen between us. It was rather too ‘mechanical’ between us. We didn’t really have that natural flow during love making. And I hear that sexual compatibility is key to a successful marriage.
Aside these two concerns of mine. He is very OK…young, a professional and decent. We are both in our 30s and employed. So, how best do I communicate my feelings across? Should I tell him directly or go through the person that introduced us? I am from the South East while he is from the South South. Please advise.’’


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